How to Ask a Girl for Her Number?
Well, just by listening to it, sounds pretty tough for most of the guys. When you want to ask a girl for her number, you are always confused about how to approach her. Anything can go wrong. She might not take you for a gentleman or you might annoy her and get yourself in trouble. Trust us! If you do it right, it can be a very respectful and fun interaction and maybe the beginning of new things too. You can end up having a friend for life or even a partner.
When asking a girl for her number, it really doesn’t matter where you saw her. It could be a cafe, a party, a common friend’s gathering or even she maybe just walking by a road, a stranger you wish to have a bond with. Human nature is pretty crazy sometimes and today we are here to help you go through it as gracefully as possible with minimum chances of failure.
Here are our few cents on how you can confidently and respectfully ask a girl for her number.
You Need To Build a Connection
Well, she might be a stranger in a very unknown place, but you need to build some sort of connection before having any verbal conversation. Even if it is very interesting eye contact. We suggest, before asking for her number, engage in conversation with her. Introduce yourself, and know a little about her. See what she says. Make some light-hearted decent jokes.
When you both are comfortable enough, then ask for her number. Also, by that time you would have known about that girl a little, the way she talks, her personality and what she likes or not.
Pay Attention to Her Body Language
When girls are comfortable in someone’s presence, they glow differently. Her body language is a clear indicator of how she feels in your presence. If she is more relaxed, easy and smiling in your presence, she likes you. If you notice she is hesitant towards you, avoids giving you answers, avoids eye contact, and replies in a word or two then maybe it is time to leave her company. It is better not to ask a girl for her number when she is giving cold vibes. She is clearly not interested.
Be Very Polite and Casual About Asking Her Number
Well, when you ask a girl for her number, don’t be too pushy or controlling as if she has to say yes. It has to be very polite and casual. The best way forward is to request her as if you want to be in connection with her. As if she is a goddess and you are asking for mercy! Make it your request, not her duty to give you her number and trust us she will be merciful.
Respect Her Answer
If you approach it correctly, she might say yes. However, if for any reason she says no. Be very respectful. It is not always that she doesn’t like you. There could be several other reasons. Maybe she thinks you are too good and she already has a boyfriend or she is going through a phase where she is not looking for any sort of connection.
In short, the rejection could be a projection of her life choices and not you. Still, say thank you for having a nice conversation together and leave a mark as a true gentleman. Also, if she doesn’t want to give her number maybe ask for a social media account. Her Instagram handle or Snapchat ID etc. You never know…
Look For Timing
Well, bad timing can ruin good chances. You must ask for her number after making her comfortable. If you ask too soon in a conversation, she might say No because she might not feel comfortable giving her number to a stranger. She can even think that you were in conversation for her number only and it can turn her off.
Maybe ask for her number when you both are comfortable and you are about to leave. Ask if you can stay in contact with her.
When Asking a Girl for Her Number Show Genuine Interest
Well, getting her number means you have reached her heart. You have to be very careful about that. The whole conversation must not look like a charade for her number. Win her heart truly! Show her that you are interested in her. Be present and mindful. Give her delightful responses. Respect her and she shall return everything.
Keep It Light and Fun
Asking a girl for her number can be a fun experience altogether. Don’t take her as something to conquer or a mission you must succeed in. Asking her number must be a natural step in your conversation. Give her a reason to follow up. Be genuinely nice so she wants to connect with you. You can also plan in light mode, where you want to meet her. Set up your meeting plan in a very natural way. She must feel safe and protected in your presence.
Don’t Be Too Overconfident When Asking A Girl For Her Number
Guys who pretend they know it all are major turn-offs. Women are like gentlemen with respectful boundaries. If you sound too confident in asking her number, she will feel she is just a commodity that has to deliver what you wish for. This embeds a feeling of “being low” then you and it is not going to work. Don’t try to overshadow her. As we said earlier, make her a goddess. Make your tone friendly and your request genuine.
End Your Conversation Gracefully
If she gave you her number or not, end the conversation beautifully. Even if she said no, she will remember you respectfully. Also, maybe given another chance, somewhere else, she will give her number.
In short, to ask a girl for her number must be done very carefully and respectfully. She must consent to it with all her heart. Make an impression that she can’t deny. In any case, if she says no. Gracefully leave the place with your heads up! Maybe it was never meant to be…
